How to Handle Someone With a Narcissistic Personality Disorder
by Peter Deneke
Have you ever come across somebody that has narcissistic traits and you thought that this person has a devil inside of them. Sometimes they can be nice and at other times the jekel and hide personality jumps out. This is because their grandiose sense of self bubble got pricked. Don't dare criticize a narcissist, because that angry demon will come out.
I had a father that was an alcoholic and it felt like we as children had to walk on eggshells. We never knew when my day would explode with anger. The anger would usually be directed at my mom, and the children would hide. Very late in life, after studying psychology. I discovered both my parents were narcissistic. I also discovered I was attracted to people with narcissistic personalities. After doing some further research on the different ways that narcissists interact with people. I started to see the way they use people to get emotional supply or narcissistic supply. One way they do this, is they want constant attention and want to feel important. So they will talk for an hour and don't allow you to say anything. What they are really doing is getting energy supply from you. You walk away feeling drained. Because it was not a friendly dialogue, but a monologue.
And also you are not allowed to disagree with them, because they are right and know it all. They are superior and godlike, and you are just an inferior person in their eyes.
And also you are not allowed to disagree with them, because they are right and know it all. They are superior and godlike, and you are just an inferior person in their eyes.
Another way they reveal themselves is by gaslighting you. Manipulate (someone) by psychological means into doubting their own sanity.
"in the first episode, Karen Valentine is being gaslighted by her husband" ( From Oxford)
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, and sanity. Wikipedia.
A narcissist will have an argument with you and accuse you of saying certain things. You will end up so confused and shocked. And you will end of walking away feeling bad that you upset the narc so much. What he or she is really doing is projection their negative emotional state on you. As they cannot handle their own negative emotions. So if they are in shame or anger, then they would blame you for been angry or offended.
Secondly, there is a spirit behind this communication twisting. You say one thing and the NARC hears another thing. Or the NARC will twist your words.
In Isaiah 27: 1, Scripture identifies a "twisting serpent" called Leviathan: In that day the Lord with His hard and great and strong sword will punish Leviathan the fleeing serpent, Leviathan the twisting serpent (Bold emphasis mine). This spirit's goal is to twist everything in our path that is good and holy as we follow Jesus. The Leviathan spirit twists truth, communication between people, perceptions, meanings, and on and on.( https://maryanndiorio.com/2017/07/17/twisting-the-truth-the-spirit-of-leviathan )
So if you are seeing these red flags. Run for your life as you are dealing with a personality disorder and an evil Leviathan spirit. The intention of this spirt is to destroy relationships. This type of personality hates to be wrong and will never admit to having a demon of pride. Many families and people have been destroyed by this evil spirit and disorder. This problem needs to be dealt with spiritually and psychologically
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